- is to spend time listening;

- is to admit that we are powerless over our own ablity to be certain, to be in control, to have all the answers;

- is to set out on a journey with God, confident that we will be cared for, that we will have all we need and that we have nothing to fear;

- is to really live life by the choices we make and not allow ourselves to be the victims of circumstance;

- is to take responsibilty for the direction of my life, and not depend on anyone else for my happiness;

- is to actively cooperate with God in co-creating a future full of hope, meaning and promise;

- is to be alert, frightened, surprised, joyful and rooted (sometimes all at once).